What do you want in a relationship?

What do you think makes a person a good boyfriend?

How would you feel if you read this letter:

"I want to be in a relationship with someone who is dating someone else. It is all right if he continues to see her while becoming further involved with me. Honesty it isn't important to me at all -- I don't mind that he isn't honest with his girlfriend or me. I also would like dating someone who has proven that he cheats while in a relationship. I am okay with waiting around to see if he ever ends things."

I'm not trying to be cruel, but this is exactly your situation!

You Deserve Better

You deserve better than this -- everyone deserves better than this.

I think it is a good idea to get a good picture of what kind of relationship you want to be in. If it helps make things more clear, write it all down. You can make adjustments about the more minor things (e.g., boxers vs. briefs) but you shouldn't compromise on the major things (trust, honesty, commitment).

Please do yourself a favor and forget about this guy!

Gillian