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How do I stop his affair with my niece?

Dear Panel,

I am a 39 year old female married to a 29 year old male. We have been married for 7 years, and we have 15 year old daughter. I have not been a very active sex partner with him the last few years. I have turned him away a lot.

Ralph is a little immature but has been a good father to our daughter. He has a quick temper but a kind heart .

Petrie is my 21 year old niece that I have taken under my wing because of her psycho father. She has failed at most everything she has attempted (never completed High school, and can't manage to get a drivers license!

Petrie started to hang out with us and go everywhere with us. She is very attached to my daughter and likes to be with her and often buys her things.

My Niece is Having an Affair with My Husband

It's great that you are willing to do ANYTHING. But what is your husband willing to do?

I have now found out that she has been having an affair with my husband (I'm not sure for how I long) and I am not prepared to lose him. I am willing to do anything I have to to keep her out of our family.

I am embarrassed for the rest of the family to learn this, because they have insinuated in the past and I never gave it a thought and was insulted by them .

How can I best save my marriage and keep others from finding out?

-Sad and Scared

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