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Foxy said:

hang out with him and not to give him any action at first

A Reader Responds:

I disagree, because Nikki says that she is a freshman in high school, which says to me that she is roughly fourteen years old, and not mature enough for such a physical relationship. I think she SHOULD do as Foxy says and hang out with him, but at the same time, make it TOTALLY clear to him that she will not be giving him any 'action', until she is ready (which, hopefully, is a few years down the road).

If nothing else, she should just consider him a good friend. The most loving and long-lasting relationships usually start out that way. Nikki shouldn't worry about what the boy wants. Nikki needs to think about what is best for HER, and stick to whatever decision she makes.

— Griz

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