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Well I can't tell you definitely yes or definitely no that he likes you or not.

What I can tell you though is what I've learned from my relationship trial and errors (the website isn't called love and learn for nothing).

First off it is true that he is in an awkward position with him being a teacher and you being a student. People do get fired over things like that. Be very careful especially with letters. If physical objects like that got into the wrong hands things can be used against him.

Now you said that you spent a lot of time in the library and you got to know him. You fell for him and you wrote him a letter. When he read it in front of you he said he would keep in touch.

He Is Only Interested in You as a Friend

She shouldn't give up. Guys get wierd when girls pursue them.

The way I see it it seems like he is very interested in you but only on a friendship level. It seems like he felt he could connect to you but when you wrote the second note (which I cant really comment on because you did not say what you wrote...I'm speculating that it expressed your feelings towards him) it pressed beyond the lines of friendship. Now things are awkward and not the same. It seems to me that his feelings aren't as intense as yours are. I really think he wanted to keep it on a friendship level.

The same thing happened to me when I was in 7th grade. The feelings weren't as intense but it was the same situation. I had a friend named Joe and when I told him in a letter I liked him we stopped talking. It was painfully clear he didn't feel the same way.

If you want to try and repair the friendship then try talking to him like you used to. Don't bring up the letter because then he will feel like you are only trying to pressure him. Wait a few weeks before you do. Try and get a feel of what he's feeling before you say anything.

And my last piece of advice? If you really want to know what a guy is thinking just ask him face to face or even on the phone. If you write a letter I find that its easier for guys to ignore you. If you want the truth go for it. And if he's stupid enough to not like you then he's not the one for ya

good luck =)

 

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