Talk To Your Boss

She should grovel to the boss if she has to.

This is a tough situation for you but all you have to do is go to your boss and if he is an easy going guy then he may understand your situation and let you take some time off so you can go with your boyfriend and go to the reunion also.

Your First Commitment Comes First

Her only commitment is to herself. She shouldn't be focusing on what others want.

If you feel that you cannot get any more vacation off work then all I can say is that since your boyfriend already paid for your trip then you should go and explain to your family the situation and apologize. Sometimes you just have to make choices in this world.

Perhaps,..A Compromise

Maybe you could still go on this vacation and come back earlier and then still go to the reunion. Do is what's best in your heart and everything should run smoothly Hope this helps.

Sarah