Dear Eitherwayimgonnadoit-

Obviously whatever I have to say isn't going matter much if you have already gone and had sex with either John or Stephen so maybe the advice will be more useful to somebody else in a dilemma like yours.

You Are SOOO Immature

i disagree because i feel that you shouldnt judge someone like that you should be here to help. -carly

I don't know any delicate way to tell you how immature you are. I knew when I was ready to have sex for the first time. I was in love with my boyfriend. We completely trusted each other. He was gentle. It was not a rash decision and I wasn't pressured by him or by what everyone else was doing. And even after we broke up and things went sour, I never regretted sharing that experience with him.óó

Think About It

You're right, John could have an STD.

You need to think about your future...I mean aside from all the risks of pregnancy, disease....condoms should take care of you there...but I mean really think if you want to remember your first time having intercourse with someone you hardly know or someone you hardly see.

Don't Have Sex With either

In my opinion you don't need to be having sex with either of them, but do what you're gonna do (or already have). Just know that this memory, whether you hurt, whether you feel utter bliss, whether you carry any regret...this is what will stay with you forever.

Alicia