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Dear Eitherwayimdoingit,
Sounds to me like maybe you should just hold off, you are afraid
with Steven and well, don't just do it with John because he is your
boyfriend of 1 year.
John May Have an STD
If you are not sure that John has been faithful, hold on, he could
be carrying an STD ready to give it to you. I think maybe you need
some alone time... You are putting too much pressure on yourself,
when the time is right you will have sex, and it will be with the
right person. Don't rush it.
Get Rid of Army Boy
If you are so interested in Steven, maybe you should get rid of
Army boy and go after what your heart really desires. That way you
will be more comfortable with Steven and not so afraid when you
get to that point of no return!!!
Don't stress over this you will only end up regretting your decision
no matter who your final choice is, DON'T RUSH IT!
You are young and have plenty of time. Hope this helps,
– Sandy
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