| Dear Jo-Anna
Confront
Him You know your own feelings
Jo-Anna, you want to confront him and get this out so you can solve it, but you
are worried that if you do there may never be a "you and him." This is perfectly
understandable. This decision is a hard one but one that must be decided to continue
on with anything. You
should confront Bob, if you care about him, then why not tell him what's on your
mind. You have every right to let him know how you feel. He's playing mind games,
and if a relationship between you and him should continue, his games need to stop.
Its not fair to you nor your friend. Tell
him you know what's going on and ask for an explanation. Tell him that if he wants
a relationship with you, his behavior towards your friend needs to stop. If he
doesn't want a relationship, move on, you love and learn right! And show tons
of appreciation for your friend, she sounds like she's a great one!
Good Luck, Hillary |
