I am a black female and I am 25 years old and I like to go out and be with my girl friends and have a good time.

I think he is too controlling and it is really pushing me away. I have been dealing with men since I have been 16 years old. I got pregnant when I was seventeen and I have been committed to two men throughout all those years and never found the time to just live for me.

Main person: g muny is black male and he is 30 years old he tells me he doesn't like for me to go out, he's trying to tell what to where, and he sometimes get physically abusive toward me and says that if I didn't go out so much that the abuse won't happen. He says I go out too much and he is always thinking I'm cheating on him.

I'm just tired of men trying to tell me what to do, where I can go, and what time I should be home. Then sometimes g muny would hit me and he says it is because I go out to much and that's why he hits on me. He doesn't like for me to go out. But when he is ready to go out, he goes with no problem and I don't tell him when to come home or who he can hang out with. I'm just sick of the whole controlling relationship.

Should I just go on with my life? Am I ready for commitment?

- Iboogey