A Reader Responds:
Never Be Afraid Of Having Sex
I disagree with Mel. No one should be AFRAID to have sex,
or lose their virginity.
Be cautious yes, be wary, think carefully about the decision,
but ultimately making love with someone you care about can
be wonderful. No one seems to be pointing that out!
Don't ever be AFRAID of having a physical relationship
with someone - that can just lead to deeper problems which
will complicate future relationships.
Make The Decision Carefully
Exercise healthy care, take appropriate precautions. Take
a long hard look at the person you intend losing your virginity
to - will they look after you, care about you? If the answer's
yes, then I think you're both ready.
Having a physical relationship with someone can be rewarding
and joyous - be careful, but don't be afraid.
Good luck!
Older Gal
Female, age 33, Australia
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