How do I make her first time pleasurable?

Dear Panel,

I have been dating my girlfriend for just over a month.

I know she is virgin but I think she may be ready to take things a step further. I'm not pressuring her at all and know the decision is hers.

I am not virgin but want to know what I can do to make it as pleasurable as possible for her, will it hurt her?

- john


The first time is always uncomfortable	This takes some careful planning


She needs to feel in controli		Ease the tension

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