A Reader Responds:
I strongly disagree because she's saying, "Well,
look honey, he's not out cheating on you, so why get all
bothered about it?"
She's Experiencing Trauma
What kind of advice is that to give to someone who is
obviously currently experiencing trama? The answer is condoning
HIS actions while NOT giving Princess any sound advice on
how to deal with and heal her present state.
Porn Is an Addiction
I think more compassion and understanding toward princess
was in order. After all, the question is a plea for help
from Princess herself. She needs to know that her feelings
are normal. She needs to know that porn addiction is a real
problem and many men (and women) suffer from it. It has
nothing to do with her inadequecies. It has everything to
do with him and his inadequecies.
Princess, it's OK to hurt and it's OK to cry. If your man
can't be sensitive to your emotion well-being, then you
need one who will be.
Femalesinger
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