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Why does porn hurt me so much?
Panelist Evette said:

He'd rather have print when he can easily go out and get the tangible stuff, if you know what I mean. The porn could be just his retreat from reality for a minute, maybe like a warm bath is to you.

A Reader Responds:

I strongly disagree because she's saying, "Well, look honey, he's not out cheating on you, so why get all bothered about it?"

She's Experiencing Trauma

What kind of advice is that to give to someone who is obviously currently experiencing trama? The answer is condoning HIS actions while NOT giving Princess any sound advice on how to deal with and heal her present state.

Porn Is an Addiction

I think more compassion and understanding toward princess was in order. After all, the question is a plea for help from Princess herself. She needs to know that her feelings are normal. She needs to know that porn addiction is a real problem and many men (and women) suffer from it. It has nothing to do with her inadequecies. It has everything to do with him and his inadequecies.

Princess, it's OK to hurt and it's OK to cry. If your man can't be sensitive to your emotion well-being, then you need one who will be.

Femalesinger

 

 
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