Dear Panel,

I have been married for 13 years and just recently we have drifted so far apart its like we are only room mates and we do not sleep in the same bed. He is a good husband except for financial problems.

I have been sleeping with this other guy that makes me feel so happy and he acts like he is so crazy about me but he is married also.

Should I risk everything and move out to find myself?

– Confused