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Dear Confused:
You Both May Be Cheating
Forget about this other guy for a minute. If he's willing to cheat
on his wife with you, he'd be willing to cheat on you with someone
else. (I could be giving the same advice to him.)
Let's concentrate on your relationship with your husband. You ask
if you should move out and find yourself. It depends.
What Kind Of Roomies Are You?
Do you feel like roommates in the "the passion isn't there
anymore" sense? If so, I'm afraid to tell you this, but that
happens in every relationship. Hopefully there is enough of a bond
between you in other areas to make up for that.
Do you feel like roommates in the "I have to label my food
in the fridge so he won't take it" sense? In that case, maybe
you should go get an apartment and a dog for companionship.
At the risk of becoming redundant, I'll tell you the same thing
I've said in every answer. Go TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND about it.
If it's important enough to tell us, it's important enough to tell
him. If he refuses to listen, you DEFINITELY need the dog.
Good luck!
– Mo
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