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Dear U and A,
Ouch.
You sound like you are hurting so badly right now. I hope you do
have friends you can talk this over with, because you are really
going to need a support system.
You Deserve Better
She is treating you badly, and you deserve better.
I think that her behavior is probably linked to the abuse she suffered
from the person in her family.
I cannot imagine how devastating it would be to endure abuse for
such a long time, during such important formative years.
Get Counseling
Aside from the decision you make about whether to continue your
relationship, she definitely needs to go to counseling.
Gillian
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