Dear Panel,

My boyfriend occasionally uses marijuana and/or psychedelics; I have never tried them and have no urge to. I have told him that if we move in together I don't want them in my home; he insists they are harmless and wouldn't cause a problem, but agrees to not do them in the apartment.

He has no intention of ever stopping; I have no intention of ever starting. And this is the only big issue of dispute between us.

Do you think this is something that is worth making/breaking the relationship over? Any advice?

Thanks!

-- Only High On Life