Dear Johnny,

Break Up

Wow, yes you should break up with her; you're cheating her out of an emotional experience. Don't get me wrong - I don't think everyone should leave their partner if they have problems - but in this case I say break up and be just friends. What happens if down the road the two of you talk marriage and kids? It's hard to have children without having frequent sex.

See a Therapist or Hypnotist

Have you ever enjoyed sex with a woman? If so, what made that experience different from your current one? If not, why? What is going on inside you that makes sex a challenge? I think regardless of anything else you should see a professional who specializes in sex therapy. If you don't want to do that than perhaps try a hypnotist.

Just Be Friends

If you care about your girlfriend, talk to her and break things off, at least until you figure out what's going on with you. Be fair to her. The two of you sound like you could be friends without being in a relationship.

Good luck!

– Berly