Hi Johnny,

Do Your Girlfriends Remind You Of Your Sister?

Obviously this is a pattern -- you felt the same thing with in a past relationship and now its repeating itself. You're not sexually attracted to your girlfriends -- what kind of women are you picking? Girls who remind you of your sister or something? Maybe you're scared of intimacy or something.

HEY! We are not THAT rare.

And you're one of the rare men in the world who feel guilty taking sex without really feeling for the woman in your life.

Does She Annoy You?

I don't know, man, this is a really deep question -- considering the details I hardly believe it. Even a man who wants to have sex with other women still wants to have sex with his attractive girlfriend who's very sexual and down for the cause.

I agree: I broke up with someone just because she became boring and annoying. That can affect the sex.

What's up with that? Does she annoy you in some way -- is there something she does before or during sex that makes you feel guilty.

Get A New Girlfriend, Or Get Help

I don't know; I can't read this one too clearly. I would examine my past relationships and try to find a clue. Other than that, I would say get a new girlfriend, but then the problem still might be repeating itself.

I agree -- he should see a sex therapist.

Talking to someone professionally who can help you with this sort of thing can help. Maybe that's your best bet.