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I Broke Up With Someone Who Was Boring And Annoying
Very often I have seen (in my relationships and others) relationships
dry up and die because of what I can best describe as boredom, in
my case it was emotional boredom, the person I was with just wasn't
interesting enough anymore she became annoying and boring to be
around.
It seems to me that this may be what is happening to you only in
a sexual manner. For me the solution was to find someone else which
may also be a possibility for you, but it does not seem like your
first choice (you consider this woman to be a "soul mate").
 Give
Up Or Share The Porn
Perhaps you should do what you can to alleviate your boredom, first
of all perhaps you should try abstaining from porn and excessive
masturbation for a while, if your psyche is used to seeing a variety
of different beautiful women every time you masturbate it may get
used to this and not be as interested in a single women who is probably
not as sexy as a porn star.
And because you seem so interested in your fantasies perhaps you
should share them with your girlfriend and perhaps fulfill them
with her instead of alone.
Other than that perhaps the two of you may have to choose what's
more important the sex life that you used to have, or the emotional
relationship that you have now.
– Rick
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