I Can't Imagine Snooping On A Loved One

I can't imagine being in a relationship and snooping on the person you're with. But then again, I can't imagine being in a relationship and *cheating*, either! I guess you had an inkling that there was something going on with your fiance. You must feel shattered, finding this out months before your wedding. But now that you know, you need to talk to him about it.

Trust Is The Issue

You're right. They don't trust each other.

He may be angry that you looked through his email -- yet that is not the issue. The issue is one of trust. You need to talk through this problem and quite probably get pre-marital counseling if you still intend to marry this man. If you want to stay with him and work things through, you should put the wedding on hold. There are so many details and excitement surrounding the "big day" -- I would hate for this situation to be swept under the carpet because the invitations had already been mailed, or something like that.

Please Don't Marry Him

I don't know if I could continue a relationship with someone I knew had been unfaithful to me. It sounds like you don't know, either. I really can't help you with that part of the problem. But I do know you need to talk this situation over with your fiance -- and if you feel like you "can't" talk to him, then please don't marry this man.