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If you call the wedding
off over this, then you weren't ready to be married in the first
place.
Dear g.o.,
The only thing I can
advise you on in this situation is to think it over very carefully
before you make a decision that will change your life. And 30 minutes
sure as hell isn't long enough. But also you have to look at it
this way... if you want to cancel the wedding over this then I don't
think you were ready in the first place.
Individual
Privacy Is Important
I believe individual
privacy in a relationship is very important because no matter what
every person needs space in a relationship. Although you did find
these E-mails by invading his privacy, maybe it was a sign that
you two weren't meant for each other, because 1) you invaded his
privacy and 2) he has lied to you and you found that out for yourself.
Now I'm thinkin he lied
because he didn't think you would take it too good if you found
out he had slept with his ex numerous times. Hell, I don't know
if I could. But there also has to be good communication in a relationship.
You
Need Trust
I believe if you two
talked this out you could come to a compromise. But I also think
trust is something you never had in your relationship from the sounds
of it, and something that will now take a long time to build between
you two.
Well I hope you make
the decision that's right for you, and good luck in making that
decision.
~Nikki
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