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Dear Someone,

Ah... this is a tough question because you're gonna feel awkward around her whether or not she finds out you're in love with her.

Is This Just A Phase?

But also, is this just a phase you're going through? I mean sometimes as teenagers (I'm not sure of your age) you might develop feelings for a friend that's the same sex as you that may seem extremely strong. But if you're older you may want to question yourself on how strong these feelings are for her. Also how long you have been having them?

Or do you already know you're homosexual? If that's the case then you do need to tell her because otherwise whenever you're around her, you're gonna be weary on how to act around her.

At Least Try To Tell Someone

If she hasn't told anyone yet, she can seek support with some of these resources.

If you absolutely can't tell her then at least try to tell someone. But if she's truly you're friend, she'll accept your feelings and move on. I'm not saying she has to act on these feelings but she should accept them.

If they scare her off, which they might, then you should consider finding a new friend who can accept you for who you are. There are plenty of people out there who don't care if you're black, white, purple, green, or pink; homosexual, heterosexual, or bi... if you catch my drift.

Well I hope this was helpful. Best of luck in whatever you choose to do.

~Nikki

 

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