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Do I tell my non-lesbian friend that I love her?

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Sanne I agree -- if she hasn't already discussed her lesbian feelings she should do that first.

There is a simple solution to this one depending on if your friend knows you are a lesbian and is OK with it.

Mare Even this is risky -- ther are a lot of Neaderthals out there.

If she doesn't know I suggest telling her first, at least a few days before you tell her your feelings.

Many People Fall For Their Best Friends

Charlie Define love. Usually with friends it's not a romantic love.

If she knows that you are a lesbian and is OK with that then I don't see the problem, many people fall in love with their best friends of the opposite sex, so this is no different.

However, telling her will definitely change your relationship. If you don't want to lose her as a friend, then maybe think things through very carefully before dropping the bomb, she may run the other way and you lose her as a friend and as a lover.

Go For It If She IsThe One

Reader Been There I disagree. Don't mess up a good thing! I've BEEN there.

Either way there will be consequences, you have to decide what outcome you can handle and take it from there. But hey go for it if she is the one for you. Sometimes you have to lose some to win some.

Let me know how it turns out and good luck.

Sandy

 

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