| Dear RC, Cartoon
Advice
I once received a cartoon
in my e-mail of a skeleton in a pretty blue dress sitting on a park
bench. There were cobwebs, spiders and birds picking at it. The
caption in the cartoon read, "A
woman waiting for the perfect man."
Rule
number one: Don't become this
woman.
Love
Will Find You
Women have a habit of
over-analyzing things. You don't have to see every guy you date
as a potential husband. I know it sounds corny, but it's true when
people say, "love finds you when you're not looking."
Just sit back, observe and learn from everything you see and hear.
Keep
Trying Like He Does You
said the guy you're seeing wants to continue dating to see if things work out.
You need to be more like him. When a man likes the woman he's dating he makes
moves, when he doesn't like the woman he's dating he ends it. Sometimes this may
be harsh, but its practical. So you need to think the same way. Equal
Effort If
he's putting in 10%, you should put in 10%. Yes, people may disagree with this,
but do you think it's equal when you're thinking marriage, and he's still thinking
about going to the movies and dinner this weekend? Just
Relax!
If he's not worried then
why should you be? Just Relax! If you are most certain he's not
the type of man with whom you want to remain in an exclusive relationship,
then end it. It's as simple as that. Don't lose any sleep. Just
remember: there are over
a billion guys on this earth. Trust me, men are not going anywhere.
Sincerely, Mar |
