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Dear "fell in love
with a perv",
He
Needs Help
Your husband has a disease:
sexual addiction. He needs help and that's all there is to it.
Stay
With Him If He Hasn't Hurt You
Aside from the distress
learning this has caused you, if he has never really done you any
real damage or harm then I believe you should stick with him if
your heart tells you to and get him help.
Leave
Him If He Has Hurt Your Daughters
Now it is a different
story if he hurt your girls. He's been with you for eight years;
now it's obvious that your girls are all older than what he fetishes
for, but I would still look into whether he's harmed your girls
or not in any way in the future or past. Now, if this is the case:
He should get gone, no contest.
Stay
If He Can Get Better
But if you believe that
he can get better and he hasn't disrespected you or hurt you in
a really damaging way then stick it out for better or worse and
get some help.
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