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Dear "fell in love
with a perv",
My first thoughts were
to just dump the bum because I have real strong feelings about people
who are into "little girl" picts.
Give
Him A Chance
But then I read on and
thought it through. If the rest of the marriage is that good and
he really wants to change, give him a chance.
Make it soon, very soon
for help and keep a eye on his progress.
"No
'help', no progress, no marriage."
You might want to make
a boundary out of identifiable progress as a means of decision whether
to stay with him or not. No "help", no progress, no marriage.
Monitor
Your Younger Daughters
I don't feel as though
the older kids are in any kind of danger as they seem to be outside
his "window" of likes. The younger one should be monitored
for any weird behaviors, past or present form your husband.
Inform
Your Daughters
You might discuss with
the older ones what is going on in terms of dad being "sick"
as they are old enough to handle the subject matter, but the young
one might require a professional to discuss the matter. Pretty heavy
trip to lay on someone that age.
-- Mr. Survivior
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