Dear Feeling Like Meat,

What can I say?!? You have just asked the question that basically every woman on the face of the earth wants an answer to...

"The Best Is Yet To Come"

Peter Ustinov said: "The point of living, and of being an optimist, is to be foolish enough to believe that the best is yet to come."

I have this saying -- the Best Is Yet To Come!!! I know that sounds really annoying especially since you're looking but unfortunately you have to go through the bad stuff to get to the goods.

The Problem Is With the Guys

I don't think that the problem lies with you. It's probably the guys that you choose to date.

Guilty as charged.

Unfortunately, regardless if a woman is dressed in a turtle neck and jogging pants -- any RED-BLOODED MALE will know what's underneath it.

Staring At Your Chest

So, basically if the guy is actually listening to what you're saying and not paying attention to your chest -- then you've got a winner!!! But of course, that is sometimes a ploy to get into your pants...

How To Tell If It's Real

The way I can always tell a worthwhile dude, is if he is in it for the long haul. Meaning: if you take the time to get to know each other -- WITHOUT SLEEPING WITH ONE ANOTHER -- then I think he actually likes you and not what's underneath.

Don't Sleep With Them Until You Know Each Other

But if you are sleeping with guys even before you really know each other that may be the reason why you attract the "bad ones". If that's the case, I always say that you should sleep with someone that you know that you are 100% sure you are in love with.

Relax and Have Fun

Not only are the women shaking their heads, so are us guys. ALL guys are like that.

The truth is not all guys are like that (even though I know many women are shaking their heads at me right now). But let's face it -- the best part is the experience. Getting to know different people is always fun.

So basically, all I have to say is that -- relax and have fun! Don't worry about what this guy's looking for or what that guy really wants. The right guy will eventually find his way to you!

Hope I've helped,

- Mel