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Dear Miss D,
You know, as a rule,
I try to avoid clichés, but "play with fire, and you
might get burned" comes to mind.
You're
Naïve
I think your question
about avoiding the seriousness of your relationship shows how naïve
you are. The man you are involved with is married. That is as serious
a relationship as you can imagine. I don't care if you haven't slept
with him, I believe that there is such a thing as emotional infidelity.
"Anything
But" a Physical Relationship?
It sounds as if you do
have a physical relationship, even if you have been doing "everything
but" -- I don't know how that makes it better.
 Speak
Honestly to Him
The most important thing
you can do now is speak honestly with this man. Explain to him that
you have no intentions of wanting a serious relationship.
Make it absolutely clear that he cannot expect a future with you.
Gillian
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