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Dear John,
You're
Pretty Dumb
Yeah, you're right. You
were pretty dumb to marry someone you didn't even love. Especially
if you were in love with someone else.
Someone was scared of intimacy, and they ducked out and married
someone who didn't really have his heart, therefore his heart
was safe but alone.
Get Out of This Marriage
If you're man enough to keep seeing a woman that your family
and wife doesn't want you to see, then you're man enough to
get out of a marriage that you don't really appreciate. I
mean the reason they're telling you not to talk to this woman
is because they must know you have the hots for her, and she
has the hots for you.
If You Keep Seeing Her, You Will Have Spontaneous
Combustion
You must make it so obvious if they're telling you to not
even speak to her. Because you know as well as they do, that
you'll be hanging with her one day, some chemistry will be
there and BOOM! You'll be sheepishly explaining "It something
that just happened...", Well nothing ever "just
happens", so unless you stay away from this woman, your
feelings will get the best of you and you'll be in bed with
her before you know it.
Is Your Wife in Love With You?
Listen, I'm not one to say who should and shouldn't get married
here, but let's face it: you married this woman for security,
convenience, and social acceptance -- what if she married
you for just plain ole love?
Plus those things -- she'll be crushed when she finds out
you want out. Two people have to be honest with each other
when they make such a huge commitment, on what they want out
of it, so no hearts get broken, or no wires get crossed.
 Go
For It
Anyhow, its quite evident that an affair will ensue anyway, and
there's no point in cheating on your wife, and there's no
point in being unhappy so I say, the only fair thing to do
is to go for it.
Don't worry about your family or "social acceptance",
you have to do what's right in your heart.
If you can't love this woman you're with or even go a day
without yearning to be with someone else, then you should
leave anyway. I don't know if the next relationship is going
to work out with Marla, but it's obvious there's no point
in being where you are.
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