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Reader responds:
I disagree with
Hope's answer. She has told this man to stay with his wife,
even though he is completely obsessed with another woman.
He's
Not Fit For Any Commitment
He has decision-making
problems and was stupid enough to marry someone with whom
he was not in love. He probably is not someone who could
successfully concentrate on his marriage and solve his problems,
and it sounds like his relationship to his is one he can
never live with when he's so preoccupied with this Marla
woman.
Get
Out Before Having Kids
I think he should
get out of that marriage fast, before his wife insists that
they have children. From seeing how he dealt with pressure
to get married, he'll probably end up starting a family
with his wife, still being into Marla, potentially ruining
his children's stability and happiness. Before this happens,
he should file for divorce.
-- Missy
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