Survivor Answers:

Dear sindy,

Is the Unspoken Causing Intimacy Problems?

Does the fact, unspoken, prevent you from growing in this new relationship?

Are you in therapy to deal with the issues at hand?

I agree - she has to decide if it would explain her behavior or attitude.

If you are having problems getting the relationship to bloom in the areas of intimacy then maybe an explanation would be helpful, but you are probably the only one who can judge how he will take the revelation.

Wrong! She is never required to give full disclosure.

Eventually you will need to discuss the matter if the relationship is to grow and prosper.

Get To a Therapist

I would also recommend that if you are in counseling that you first discuss the matter with the doctor before broaching the matter with your boyfriend; the effects could be profound and devastating.

I will ask one more time. In counseling? If not, get ye to that place ASAP.

-- Mr. Survivor

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