|
Dear Ben,
Stupid
People
As a former product of
the rumor mill, I know exactly what you're going through. It's terrible
when stupid people have nothing better to do that to create lies
about someone else's life.
You
Can't Love Someone You've Never Spoken To
However, I have to wonder
if you're REALLY as "in love" with this girl as you think.
Are you ready at 12 years
old to throw around that word? You might feel lust and have an attraction
to this girl, but you can't truly love someone that you've never
spoken to!
Approach
Her
If you want to know this
girl and be close to her, try this: Approach her and explain the
situation.
More than likely, she'll
appreciate that you had the courage to go up to her. If she blows
you off, then you will know it wasn't meant to be.
You Can't Stop People Who Spread Lies
As for everyone else,
it is virtually impossible to combat other people when they are
spreading lies. All you can do is depend on your true friends to
know that you're telling the truth and for them to believe in you.
Rumors
Fade
95% of rumors blow over
after a few weeks anyway. Try not to stress about it too much. If
you DIDN'T say that you wanted to see her nude, then in the long
run, you have nothing to worry about.
Good luck!
Karmela
|
