Dear Panel,

My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months now, and we both have expressed our deep feelings for eachother.

We have a problem, however: he is Catholic and I am not. For him that means that there is no tolerance for premarital sex.

I also believe in saving yourself for marriage, however, I don't think that applies to oral sex. He does.

He Says He Wants To Do It

He has told me thathe physically wants to do it and so do I. I really care for my boyfriend and I know that this would be an act of trust and a way for us to be intimate together.

I do not want to interfere with his religion, but if he heard a priest say it was alright, he would do it.

How can I deal with feeling unattractive and rejected?

– Confused