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Patra
responds:
I agree because
"confused" started by saying
that she and her boyfriend are really close and love each
other. Then she ended by saying that she feels unattractive
and rejected.
Something is
not matching up.
Strength
and Character
If she loves
him and knows the depth of his religious feelings, she shouldn't
take it personally that he doesn't want to sleep with her.
To me it is a symbol of his strength and character, very
admirable qualities.
Is
Sex More Important to You?
Not knowing
your ages, I can't tell you whether or not marriage is in
the cards, but I can tell you that you are lucky to find
someone with such high principles. Respect his feelings,
and if sex is so important to you, maybe you aren't as happy
with him as you say.
Sexual
Frustration
Also, oral sex
is sex! You are really trying to split hairs, aren't you?
Why don't you learn how to sexually take care of yourself
and still keep the man? Sexually frustrated is no way to
go through life!
-- Patra
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