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Does oral sex count as premarital sex?

Charlie said:

What else is going on in your relationship that is making you feel rejected?

Patra responds:

I agree because "confused" started by saying that she and her boyfriend are really close and love each other. Then she ended by saying that she feels unattractive and rejected.

Something is not matching up.

Strength and Character

If she loves him and knows the depth of his religious feelings, she shouldn't take it personally that he doesn't want to sleep with her. To me it is a symbol of his strength and character, very admirable qualities.

Is Sex More Important to You?

Not knowing your ages, I can't tell you whether or not marriage is in the cards, but I can tell you that you are lucky to find someone with such high principles. Respect his feelings, and if sex is so important to you, maybe you aren't as happy with him as you say.

Sexual Frustration

Also, oral sex is sex! You are really trying to split hairs, aren't you? Why don't you learn how to sexually take care of yourself and still keep the man? Sexually frustrated is no way to go through life!

-- Patra

 

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