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Dear "in love with
my step-sister",
It
Would Be Awkward
This situation does seem
a bit awkward. At first I was inclined to tell you to just go for
it -- you aren't related by blood and therefore everything about
it is legal.
You'll Become
Her Brother
But then I got to thinking.
. . If you two do have a relationship, and it lasts more than a
year, you will end up moving in with your girlfriend. I have always
had a problem with this situation -- I don't like
it. If you are living with her you had better be her husband or
her brother. This makes it even MORE awkward since you WOULD BE
her brother.
This is my advice:
Consider
Your Parents
I would not attempt anything
more than a best friends relationship between the two of you.
Many boyfriend/girlfriend
relationships result in two people
hating each other and never wanting to see each other again. This
could get very difficult if you are either living in the same house,
or seeing each other all the time anyway since your parents see
each other all the time. This could not only cause difficulty between
the two of you, but think of the fix it would put your parents in!!!
Just
Be Friends
Forget the boyfriend/girlfriend
idea. Just be friends. At 14 and 15 it is just about the same thing
anyway -- minus the kissing of course. You two can still do stuff
together and have fun and spend a lot of time together. But don't
turn it into anything difficult, don't try to complicate it. It
can only make things very difficult and horribly awkward down the
road.
-- Saturday
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