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Patra
responds:
My
Condolences
First, let me
convey my condolences to the passing of your nephew, Mr.
Survivor. I have a nephew and I can't imagine the pain.
Single
Parenting
I disagree with
your advice because a single parent upbringing does not
always mean another "fouled up" person in the world. I can't
tell you what it does to my brain cells to see Mr. Survivor
write that in the year 2000. It was so cruel and stupid.
I guess a woman's place is in the kitchen. And thunder is
God bowling.
I know so many
women (and quite a few men, too) that are raising children
by themselves, because of divorce or never being married.
And there are plenty of messed up people who had 2 parents
in the home! It would only cross the minds of old, biggoted,
jack-asses to think of an innocent child as a bastard.
Sorry, Mr. Survivor,
but you really riled me this time!
Abortion
Now, about the
question: Anonymous never said a thing about abortion, so
I am assuming she will keep the baby.
Honey, this is
not a situation that you can keep secret forever. My advice
is to get with your boyfriend and make a tentative plan.
When you tell your parent (and you probably will, if only
for the moral support), you and your parents will feel better
that you are taking responsiblity by having a solid idea
of what you want to do.
If you want to
have an abortion, there is no reason to tell anyone, unless
you choose to.
--Patra
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