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Jeannie
responds:
Nope, I don't
think she should spend any time alone...I think she should
spend a LOT of time in a therapist's office. Good god, little
girl, where did you hail from?
Emperor
Kwan
First of all,
the NAME that you chose to
represent yourself in this email says powerful words. You
don't have an identity of your own - so you try to identify
yourself with the people around you. The rich man, the poor
man and your less-than-best- friend, Amber. What you are
is a simple reflection of the people around you. And I do
mean simple. Your needs are so basic that I'm surprised
you keep stumbling over them without realizing it.
Honestly, I'm
not not going to give you advice or really comment on anything
you said in your very long email. Why? Because I really
don't believe a word of it. WHY should I?
You
Are a Child
What I think
you want is to have someone else take care of you, pamper
you, and treat you like the Queen you think you are. I have
some pretty harsh news for you, sweetheart. You are not
a queen. What you are is a very young child in an adult's
body.
The person you
describe yourself to be in your letter is rude, insensitive,
manipulative, lying, deceitful and money hungry. Now what
I want to know is WHY you would portray yourself as such
in such an open forum. I don't think you are looking for
sympathy OR advice, because it's not likely that you would
take it any way.
ATTENTION
GETTER
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Jeannie
is referring to the original question,
which was in ALL CAPS before I converted it. |
What I DO think
you are looking for is attention. So pay CLOSE attention
to what I am about to say. You are SCREAMING for attention
- positive, negative, whatever, I think it all feels the
same to you. You manipulate people to get what you think
you want. And someday, you just may manipulate the wrong
person. You are looking for attention in any way that you
can get it and that is a very dangerious place to be.
It's called KARMA, my dear.
We are all responsible
for our actions, our words, our thoughts, our feelings.
Most of all, we are responsible for the way we treat others...the
way we show ourselves to others, and how we view the rest
of the world. The old saying, "Do unto others and you have
them do unto you"...Well, sweetheart, unless you stop doing
to others what you've been doing, you are in for a real
shock.
Wake up, take
a good harsh look at yourself...if you can even FIND yourself
anywhere. If you can't, then you need some serious help.
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Jeannie
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