Survivor Answers:

Dear EMPERORKWAN,

This Is Hard for Me To Answer

I have spent a lot of hours thinking about this one off and on and am working towards an answer that is more full of patience and tolerance than the feeling that I should just say "screw off" or some such thing. This is a hard one for me, so here we go.

You Are Mixed Up and Need Professional Help

The best I can say to you is that I feel that you are a mixed up person, very mixed up, and would very likely get a lot of benefit from professional help.

Lose All Three People

The next thing I would like to say to you is, lose all three of the mentioned people and then seek help before you become any further involved in the insanity you described in your letter.

A "Kept Woman"

In the old days, they called a person who had to be "kept" with money and presents a mistress, I think you know what the term in use today is for the same. If you need money and presents (the more the better, it seems from your letter) to be in love, will you just go looking for "more" if the current guy has not enough to give at some point?

Lose the Insanity

The whole story about who made it with who, might, maybe do it again and the girlfriend who likes to stir up the pot is, to me, pure insanity. Do you like being crazy? Lose the losers when you go away and don't go back. Seek help while you are out, before the situation becomes permanent.

The original question was in ALL CAPS. I had to convert it to make it easier to read.

Netiquette

BTW if no one told you before, (just a little bit of Web manners): ALL CAPS IS LIKE YELLING AT SOMEONE AND IS CONSIDERED RUDE IN CIVILIZED CIRCLES. Maybe you wer jest igorent of the fact. Might just keep you out of trouble somewhere else down the line.

Mr. Survivor

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