Mary said:

It would be wise to explain to him that you still want to marry him and that he is the man for you, if in fact you believe he is. However, I don't think you should compromise your values.

A Reader responds:

I definitely agree with Mary. You have your own views on living together before marriage, and don't let anyone tell you that they are old-fashioned.

Even among couples who give it a trial run, the divorce rate does not drastically change.

If he loves you, he will just be that much more excited when the day comes, and look forward to his new life with you as his wife that much more.

– jessie

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