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Dear Jack,
Be Passive
It is always a little discomforting feeling that you have been
lied to by a loved one. The best thing you can do is to take a passive
approach to this one. If you get mad and start a fight, you both
will wind up saying things you don't mean.
Tell Her How It Hurts You
Instead, tell her how it hurts you that she didn't tell you the
truth. Make sure you let your feelings be known, so that she will
take them into consideration should she ever consider lying to you.
Prove To Her You Won't Lie
Another thing you should try and do is prove to her that you would
never lie to her. After all, it isn't fair to ask her to be truthful
to you without saying you'll do the same for her.
Indigo
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