Dear Panel,

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I love him dearly. I trust him with my life. I believe that he would never cheat on me.

My boyfriend always tells me how much he loves me, he's never loved someone as much as me and he trusts me with his life. He swears on his life that he would never cheat on me.

A 16 year old girl has been going to my boyfriend's basketball games to watch him. Now she talks to him online and they have cybersex.

One night I found what my boyfriend who is 21, and this 16 year old were saying to each other. He gave her his phone # and told her maybe she should meet him in person. I asked him about this, and he just says there's nothing to worry about and he was just messing with her head. Can I trust him? Or am I losing him to a cybersex girl?

Should I dump boyfriend for going too far online with minor?

-- sooo confused

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