Do I dump him for having cybersex with a minor?

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Dear SOOO Confused –

Something's Missing in Your Relationship

Honey – You need to have a SERIOUS talk with this boyfriend of yours. If he is having cybersex, there is something missing in your relationship. Why is he looking elsewhere????

It's Trashy

Naah. The age is NOT an issue.

He is not only having cybersex, but he (a 21 year old) is having cybersex with a 16 YEAR OLD GIRL! That is just plain trashy!

I suggest you have a long talk with your boyfriend and ask him why he does this when he has you in his life.

Look For Another

I, personally, don't think he will "outgrow" this behavior and I suggest you look elsewhere for a boyfriend who is faithful to you in every sense of the word!

Meeting Online Can Lead to Relationships

I believe meeting people online CAN lead to relationships, and I think you should find out what is going on in his head before you dismiss the fact that his relationship with the 16 year old is harmless.

Also, if he is messing with the 16 year-old's head, he will probably mess with hers.

I just want you to ask yourself one question, "Why did he give the other girl his number"? He MAY be messing with her head, but when she DOES call (and a 16 year old WILL call a 21 year old)...what do you think will happen? Phone sex...then what...they meet in person...without a phone and without a computer...then "real" sex is bound to happen.