Dear Sooo Confused,

I have one word for you: BLEEECCCCHHHHH!

Or perhaps, ICKY!

Move On

I believe you probably do love this guy, but he is bad news. You're only 19, and have your whole life ahead of you to be with someone who will truly love you – and only you – back.

She shouldn't give up yet – maybe she just needs to spice up their sex life.

Tell yourself, then him, that it's over, and move on.

He's Cheating

If he needs to talk dirty to some minor then she needs to find someone a little more mature.

There is no room in a relationship for the kind of cheating he's perpetrating on you. No excuses, no slack. His relationship with her ends, or yours does (frankly, I think you should end it anyway, but if he is truly remorseful and changes his ways, maybe there's room for forgiveness).

I don't want to attack your boyfriend anymore, so I'll just end it here. Be brave, and trust me - you'll get over him.

– Mensch