Dear
Panel,
I
am eighteen years old. I live in a small town and have been
dating Chris for eight months. I am very emotional and get
hurt easily. I am an insecure person, but I feel my feelings
are right about how I feel about his best friend and him.
I am very uncomfortable with their friendship.
Chris
has been all over the country. He has had a lot of good and
very bad experiences. He is definitely very independent and
likes it that way. He is also 26 years old.
We
are very close. We hit it off right away. We use to be friends
before we stared dating. From there it got serious. I found
out that he has bi-polor disorder which doesnŞt bother me
yet it makes me worry. He is very romantic and sweet. I love
him very much.
His
Female Roommate Is in Love with Him
But
he has a female roommate. He was intimate with her before
moving in together. They are best friends. He has made it
obvious to her that friends is all they will be. Yet, she
presses it. She accuses me of things and argues with him about
me. I do not like her at all. She has threatened me to him,
but not to my face. She is in complete love with him. I know
this, and so does he.
She
Doesn't Like Me
She
doesn't want me to come over when she's home or stay the night
when she's there. Yet he says they will always be friends
and will always do stuff together. I don't like that. If we
move in together I don't want her in my home. But I don't
think he'll listen to me. He says he can be friends with whoever
he wants. I am uncomfortable with them being so close, and
spending time together.
Am
I wrong thinking that they do too much together or that he
asks too much of me about letting them spend time together?
–
A.J. Inlow
age
18, US
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Charlie,
Jeannie,
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