Dear Panel,

I have been married to my husband for 2 ½ years now, but don't know whether I really love him.

When we are just sitting at home watching TV or something, I don't think about it. But I dream about someone else every night (it is no one in particular I know). Or when I go to classes I think about falling in love with someone else. I know this sounds strange but I can't help how I feel.

What should I do about this? Is there some way to put this out of my mind?

– In-and-Out of Love Lady
age 20, US