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Why do I dream of being with someone else?

Jassy Answers:

Dear "In and Out of Love Lady",

18 Is Young To Make a Life Commitment

Wow...what a question to be asking yourself. You say that you are 20...which means you got married at 18. 18 is VERY young to make a life-long committment. I want you ask yourself why you decided to get married. Was it because you felt as if you REALLY loved him, or was it to escape your life at home.

Talk to Him About Your Issues

I think it is natural to think about other men, but if you actually THINK of leaving your husband to be with another man, then there are issues that you and hubby need to address.

Jeannie

There is no need to talk to him about her fantasies, but she should tell him her needs.

I know it might be hard to think about even TALKING about this with your husband, but you need to. Otherwise this will eat up at you and it will become a problem in your marriage.

Ask yourself:

  • WHY are you dreaming about other men?
  • Are your needs not getting satisfied?
  • Are you unhappy with your hubby?
  • OR are you unhappy with yourself?

Think these things through and then talk to your husband ...let me know how it goes....

GOOD LUCK!

Smooches,
Jassy

 

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