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Dear In and Out of Love
Lady:
Fantasies
Are Normal
18 was a very young age
to marry. It's no wonder your mind is wandering a bit onto different
scenarios and fantasies.
When we find someone to share our life with and marry them, it is
often the case that the mind still wanders and dreams of romantic
encounters. That is not unusual in itself. In fact, its very normal.
Most people have a fantasy life to one degree or another.
Women
Like Romance, Men Like Sex
Women tend to romanticize
about – well – romance. Men tend to get their brain rattled
with fantasies of sexual encounters. How is that for a generalization?!
All of these feelings are quite common and harmless.
A
Dangerous Game
Do you know that expression
"playing with fire"? Well, fooling around when you're
in a committed relationship is just that. It is a dangerous game.
Someone usually gets hurt. In many cases, everyone gets hurt.
If you are questioning
whether or not you are happy in your relationship or if you are
seriously considering drawing another man into your life to help
you sort through your feelings, you might want to consider talking
to a professional therapist or counselor about your feelings first.
Harmless
and Healthy Fantasies
If your mind just wanders
off to dreams and fantasies and you have no desire to truly create
such a scenario in your life, I wouldn't worry about these thoughts.
They are harmless and healthy. Dream on.
– Miss
Kitty
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