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Do we spend too much time together?

Jassy Answers:

Dear Confused-

Define "All" the Time

I DO think that it is possible to spend TOO MUCH time together. You say that you are together ALL the time, does that mean, morning noon and night 7 days a week?

Hang Out with Your Friends

If so, I do think you should spend some time apart. I am NOT saying break up with him, BUT I am saying trying doing activities with your friends. Go to the mall or movies with your friends in the afternoon on Saturday instead of hanging out with your boyfriend ALL the time...you guys can still date and see eachother, just try to do some separate activities for awhile.

Don't Lose Yourself

Buddy

I agree. I think she's suffering from lost individuality.

The thing is, you don't want to lose yourself (who you are) in the relationship. Sometimes when you are involved in relationship you can get carried away and "lose" yourself. It kind of sounds like this is happening to you...so maybe you DO need to spend time apart...make "dates" to hang out and see how it goes from there.

I can see that you really care about him, so by all means, DON'T break up...like I said, just try doing some things without him...let me know how it goes...

Lots of luck ----

Love and Hugs
Jassy

 

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