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Dear Confused-
Define "All" the Time
I DO think that it is possible to spend TOO MUCH
time together. You say that you are together ALL the time, does
that mean, morning noon and night 7 days a week?
Hang Out with Your Friends
If so, I do think you should spend some time apart.
I am NOT saying break up with him, BUT I am saying trying doing
activities with your friends. Go to the mall or movies with your
friends in the afternoon on Saturday instead of hanging out with
your boyfriend ALL the time...you guys can still date and see eachother,
just try to do some separate activities for awhile.
Don't Lose Yourself
The thing is, you don't want to lose yourself (who
you are) in the relationship. Sometimes when you are involved in
relationship you can get carried away and "lose" yourself.
It kind of sounds like this is happening to you...so maybe you DO
need to spend time apart...make "dates" to hang out and
see how it goes from there.
I can see that you really care about him, so by
all means, DON'T break up...like I said, just try doing some things
without him...let me know how it goes...
Lots of luck ----
Love and Hugs
Jassy
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