Reader MissyClar Responds:
I just watched a
Frontline program about the lost children of a suburban
town in Georgia, and a lot of the stories on it reminded
me of yours.
Among the sexually promiscuous teens and pre-teens, a few
of the girls interviewed often had reactions like, "I
was drunk, I didn't know what I was doing" (avoiding
responsibility) and also things like, "sex isn't fun
for girls..it's just something I did".
Anyway, it seemed like the main problem for the girls was
that they didn't know how to stop the guys from doing what
they were doing. they couldn't even THINK that maybe they
were worth something, or that they could tell a guy "I value myself, stop."
MissyClar
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