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Dear Emily,
Your Field Is Limited
If chastity is important enough to you, I'm sure you will be able to find a
virgin out there somewhere, but at 25, the field is gonna be pretty
limited.
It's Ridiculous To Stay with Someone You've Ruled Out
I'm not sure what your real concern is here, because you are staying
with somebody who you have already ruled out as having a future
together. To me, that seems absolutely ridiculous.
You're Just Jealous
I understand the feeling you get imagining him with someone else,
but that is your problem, not his.
There is nothing dirty or shameful about sex and until you stop
thinking of it as some horrible thing you are going to continue
to have these bad visuals – which are all about jealousy, by
the way.—
Seek Other Virgins
I'm sorry that I can't be more helpful to you, but we are on opposite sides
of the spectrum. You might want to check out the April 2001 issue
of Spin Magazine which features an article on the resurrection of
a "virgin" movement. You can probably find organizations
with like minded individuals where you can better express yourself
and find someone who, like you, is a virgin.
– Alicia
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